Graduation Speech: Happiness is Success :: Graduation Speech, Commencement Address

A few months ago I was sitting in the guidance center waiting for some transcripts. I was having one of those high-stress, low-patience days and I was just in a very bad mood. As I waited, I noticed a little book on one of the coffee bean tables called What happiness is. Cynically curious, I picked up the book and fingered through it. Each page was different quote about what happiness is, and as I canvass each one, I started to slowly lift out of my bitter mood. The first one I read was Happiness sneaks in through a door you didnt know you left open. - John Barrymore. I could buy that, I was starting to feel a little better. The next one I read was All who would win joy must share it, happiness was born a twin. - Lord Byron. Now that mat up good to read my present mood. Eagerly, I read the third one. Happiness is going to the 20 year reunion and finding that the boy elected most likely to succeed, didnt. Needless to say, I felt a little disenfranchised by this one. Having won that category in the yearbook this year, I felt a sudden added pressure. I was now articled for 20 years to try to succeed in order to keep all of you from being happy. It was a lose-lose situation for all of us. For a time after, my thoughts a lot drifted to that 20-year reunion. How was I going to be successful? How was I going to insure I fulfilled my high school yearbooks prophecy? How was I going to be a success? Immediately, my thoughts drifted to money. Success to most Americans immediately means big houses, hot cars, bling-bling. I had no guarantees to myself that I would be a success. There was goose egg I could do but continue to work hard, stay up late writing papers and hang posters my entire life for dances. I didnt ineluctably want this. So I began to question what success is to me. And its more than the cliche of happiness. What success is to me, could be radically different than what success is to anyone else in this room. Its up to me to ascertain it for me. Its up to me to decide what I have to do in my life to make it a success. We all set our own expectations.